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{"id":3414,"date":"2014-05-17T08:01:08","date_gmt":"2014-05-17T12:01:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/leandresz.com\/?p=3414"},"modified":"2018-05-31T21:50:35","modified_gmt":"2018-06-01T01:50:35","slug":"heureuse-deception","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/syrieix.com\/en\/heureuse-deception\/","title":{"rendered":"<!--:fr-->Heureuse d\u00e9ception.[:]<!--:-->"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\r\n<script>(function(d, s, id) {\r\n  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\r\n  if (d.getElementById(id)) return;\r\n  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\r\n  js.src = \"\/\/connect.facebook.net\/fr_FR\/all.js#xfbml=1\";\r\n  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\r\n}(document, \"script\", \"facebook-jssdk\"));<\/script>\r\n<fb:like href=\"https:\/\/syrieix.com\/en\/heureuse-deception\/\" font=\"arial\" action=\"like\" layout=\"standard\" send=\"1\" width=\"\"  colorscheme=\"light\" show_faces=\"1\"  style=\"background:#FFFFFF;padding-top:0px;\r\npadding-right:0px;\r\npadding-bottom:0px;\r\npadding-left:0px;\r\nmargin-top:0px;\r\nmargin-right:0px;\r\nmargin-bottom:0px;\r\nmargin-left:0px;\r\n\"><\/fb:like><\/br><!--:fr--><figure id=\"attachment_3415\" style=\"width: 200px\"  class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/leandresz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/Heureuse-De\u0301ception.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3415 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/leandresz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/Heureuse-De\u0301ception-200x149.jpg?resize=200%2C149\" alt=\"Heureuse De\u0301ception\" width=\"200\" height=\"149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/syrieix.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/Heureuse-De\u0301ception.jpg?resize=200%2C149&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/syrieix.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/Heureuse-De\u0301ception.jpg?resize=500%2C373&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/syrieix.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/Heureuse-De\u0301ception.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"font-size: 8pt; font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">Photo : Leander Syrieix<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Quand j\u2019ai approch\u00e9 le seuil de la trentaine, je m\u2019attendais \u00e0 vivre de grands bouleversements dans ma vie, particuli\u00e8rement au plan physique et psychologique. Mais j\u2019ai plut\u00f4t \u00e9t\u00e9 ouvert \u00e0 la vie et \u00e0 l\u2019abandon. J\u2019ai alors r\u00e9alis\u00e9 qu\u2019\u00e0 chaque \u00e9tape d\u2019une vie, il y a des d\u00e9fis nouveaux et diff\u00e9rents. Aussi, j\u2019ai pris acte que j\u2019avais \u00e0 grandir \u00e0 propos ce regard port\u00e9 sur la vie en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Quand j\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 l\u2019autre, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9rang\u00e9 par son caract\u00e8re, par ses attitudes, etc., qui venaient inconsciemment r\u00e9veiller en moi certaines blessures. J\u2019ai voulu qu\u2019il soit comme je le d\u00e9sirais. Finalement, je l\u2019ai accueilli tel qu\u2019il est, j\u2019ai pos\u00e9 sur lui un regard d\u2019amour. J\u2019ai accept\u00e9 qu\u2019il soit diff\u00e9rent de moi, j\u2019ai accept\u00e9 de me d\u00e9placer dans mon rapport avec lui.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Quand tout allait mal dans ma vie, je me suis r\u00e9fugi\u00e9 dans l\u2019activisme, dans le bruit, pour fouir le silence et les moments de rendez-vous avec moi-m\u00eame\u00a0; car j\u2019avais peur de faire face \u00e0 ma v\u00e9ritable r\u00e9alit\u00e9 humaine. Finalement, en plongeant dans le chaos de ma vie, de mes relations amicales quelquefois ambigu\u00ebs, j\u2019ai pu me conna\u00eetre davantage et m\u2019accepter tel que je suis.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Dans toutes les organisations que j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9es ou dans lesquelles j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 impliqu\u00e9, j\u2019ai voulu que tout fonctionne \u00e0 ma mani\u00e8re. Finalement, j\u2019ai pris du recul et j\u2019ai fait confiance aux autres. J\u2019ai \u00e9cout\u00e9 et consult\u00e9. J\u2019ai accept\u00e9 des points de vue diff\u00e9rents du mien.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Quand j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 confront\u00e9 \u00e0 de nouvelles th\u00e9ories ou pratiques, \u00e0 des personnes qui portaient des convictions diff\u00e9rentes des miennes, je me suis enferm\u00e9. Je n\u2019ai pas voulu voir et n\u2019accepter que ce que j\u2019avais jadis profess\u00e9, ainsi que l\u2019ensemble des valeurs dans lesquelles j\u2019ai baign\u00e9 toute ma vie. Finalement, je me suis laiss\u00e9 rejoindre et transformer par ce qui me faisait peur. J\u2019ai accept\u00e9 que l\u2019autre puisse m\u2019\u00e9clairer dans ma compr\u00e9hension de mes propres convictions \u00e0 partir de son exp\u00e9rience.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">D\u2019une certaine fa\u00e7on, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9\u00e7u parce qu\u2019aucun de mes plans originels n\u2019a fonctionn\u00e9 tel que je l\u2019avais pr\u00e9vu. J\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e0 chaque fois d\u00e9plac\u00e9. <strong><em>Heureuse D\u00e9ception<\/em><\/strong> donc qui m\u2019a valu encore plus de croissance, une ouverture sur l\u2019autre. Tous ces d\u00e9placements accourus dans ma vie et toute cette croissance \u00e0 divers niveaux n\u2019auraient jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 possibles si tu n\u2019avais pas rencontr\u00e9 ma route, si tu n\u2019avais pas pris l\u2019initiative le premier dans ma vie.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Lou\u00e9 sois-tu.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">\u00a9 L\u00e9andre Syrieix.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: book antiqua,palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Tu peux partager tes r\u00e9actions \u00e0 ce recueil dans la section &#8220;Commentaires&#8221; ci-dessous. 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